Two years ago, Zain was in his first full length play at his elementary school–a hyena in The Lion King. The drama program at our school is amazing and they go all out in their productions. So when they called upon the volunteers to help, I couldn’t wait to sign up. The choices ranged from costumes to t-shirt sales to concessions and everything in between to accommodate all the parents’ skills. So I signed up for set painting and make up. I had visions of bringing the Serengeti to the stage and even practiced my face painting skills on Mir
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In my Life by Design workshop the first exercise is to fill in a typical week on a planner and then we go through together and highlight each type of activity to see where everyone is actually spending their time. We highlight everything from household activities, to commuting, to taxiing (there is a difference), to self-care, to faith and everything in between. It’s amazing for folks to really see how much or little they do of each type of activity. In a recent workshop, one of the attendees colored in her entire evening, every evening, with the color for self-care.
In my Life By Design workshop, each attendee does a check in on where they are at, and then through a series of exercises, they put a plan in place for where they want to go and how they can get there. It’s a lot to accomplish in 3 hours, but you’d be surprised at how much one can assess when they are given the time and space to just think! But there is a lot of hard work in this process because we can not add to our life what there is no room for. So you have to
Lean in my friends, I have a secret. Even though I like to think I have my poop in a group, there are times when I get stuck. It doesn’t happen quickly. Sometimes so slowly that I don’t even know I’ve come to a halt. I call this my flat tire. Can you ride a bicycle on a flat tire? Not for long you can’t. And that’s how we are in life. We need to be in balance…to be whole…to be effective. So my sure fire way to get from flat to rocking and rolling is the spoke and wheel
Many years ago I had a friend of mine, who is a Feng Shui practitioner, come to my house for a consultation. As a refresher, Feng Shui, (in Chinese thought) is a set of laws and practices as it relates to spacial arrangements that affect energy flow both negatively and positively. The whole process was eye opening, even though I’ve likely undone any changes I’ve made over the past 10+ years, but there was one point that I won’t forget. She said that if there is something that is bothering you or you are unhappy with, it will cause negative
My lifelong dream of becoming a designer came after graduating from the College of Design at Iowa State University a really long time ago! As an interior designer, I would get a lot of “oh so you are a decorator” comments, or people begging me to see my house! Aside from the fact that I was a corporate interior designer, not residential, there is a difference between a designer and a decorator (not that there is anything wrong with decorators…bear with me). According to the dictionary that comes up when you Google it… A designer is a person who plans